{"id":1000,"date":"2013-01-23T21:14:17","date_gmt":"2013-01-23T21:14:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/?p=1000"},"modified":"2020-03-08T08:30:43","modified_gmt":"2020-03-08T15:30:43","slug":"tony-robbins-date-with-destiny-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tony-robbins-date-with-destiny-review\/","title":{"rendered":"Tony Robbins &#8211; Date With Destiny Review"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">After attending Tony Robbin's signature event <a title=\"Day 1: Tony Robbins \u2013 Unleash The Power Within Review \u2013 Turn Fear Into Power\" href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/video-blog-day-1-tony-robbins-unleash-the-power-within-review-turn-fear-into-power\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Unleash The Power Within<\/a> 5 times within the last 5 years, I decided to finally step up and attend his most advanced program, <strong>Date With Destiny<\/strong> in Palm Springs of December 2012.<\/p>\n<h1><strong>Is Tony Robbins' Date With Destiny Worth It?<\/strong><\/h1>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You are going to get massive results by attending the Date with Destiny and it is worth doing. Here are some things you will learn:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self Discovery<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Master Skills<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reaching Fulfillment<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Growing Past Failures<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Create Quality In Your Life<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creating Meaning In Your Life<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Reach Your Destiny<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you follow this blog at all or watch my videos, you most likely know that I'm a huge Tony Robbins fan and have been heavily influenced by his work. \u00a0This is why I've decided to add in the Date with Destiny review. It all started for me 9 years ago, when I was a shy, depressed young boy trying to find his way in this world and felt helpless to change my circumstances. \u00a0I didn't believe I could change or that a <a href=\"http:\/\/stefanjames.com\/tony-robbins-knowledge-business-blueprint\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">better life was available<\/a> to me&#8230; until I discovered Tony Robbins and his powerful programs that began to influence my way of thinking. \u00a0Over the last 9 years, I've been through every Tony Robbins book, audio program and video that's ever been created and have taken dozens of friends to his Unleash The Power Within seminar on multiple\u00a0occasions. \u00a0Every time I attended UPW, I gained tremendous value from it and my life always improved. \u00a0Date With Destiny was always on the horizon for me, but I never committed to it until I made it a goal last year as one of <a title=\"My 2012 New Years Resolutions\" href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/video-blog-my-2012-new-years-resolutions\/\">my 2012 New Year Resolutions<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tonyrobbins\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>CLICK HERE to learn more about Tony Robbins events.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>This page contains affiliate links. If you purchase a product through one of them, I will receive a commission (at no additional cost to you).\u00a0<strong>I only ever endorse products that I have personally used and benefitted from personally<\/strong>.\u00a0Thank you for your support!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Last year when I attended UPW in New Jersey and San Jose, I wrote a 4-part series review of the event on this blog, along with lengthy videos and details about the experience. \u00a0I received A LOT of value by doing that, as you will see with this Date with Destiny review, as it forced me to share the material with others and drove Tony Robbins teachings even deeper into my nervous system. \u00a0For this Date With Destiny review, I will be sharing details about the 6-day event and my experience of it, but unfortunately it won't be as detailed as the <a title=\"Day 1: Tony Robbins \u2013 Unleash The Power Within Review \u2013 Turn Fear Into Power\" href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/video-blog-day-1-tony-robbins-unleash-the-power-within-review-turn-fear-into-power\/\">Unleash The Power Within Review<\/a>, simply because I'm terrified by how long it would take me to complete a 6-series review of the event. \u00a0DWD was much longer, more intense, and jam-packed with even more content than UPW and it'd take forever for me to share everything that occurred during that event. \u00a0But, I will share the best of the best and details about how it improved my life. \u00a0<strong>You will be able to apply these strategies to your own life, but I will say there is NOTHING like attending the event live and in-person.<\/strong> \u00a0If you have the opportunity to attend this event, or any other Tony Robbins event, I'd say go for it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Watch the video below to hear about my experience at DWD:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">\n<p align=\"center\"><em><a title=\"Tony Robbins Date With Destiny Review\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=ep_fOdZWtkg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">(Click here to watch the video on YouTube)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><b data-stringify-type=\"bold\">Are you ready to turn what you already know into next level success and impact? <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/kbb2-blog-closing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" aria-describedby=\"slack-kit-tooltip\">CLICK HERE<\/a> to join Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi\u2019s Knowledge Broker Blueprint!<\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you need help with your knowledge business? <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/knowledge-broker-blueprint-bonus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE<\/a> to get $11,334 in FREE bonuses, at no additional cost to you, when you join Knowledge Broker Blueprint!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This page contains affiliate links. If you purchase a product through one of them, I will receive a commission (at no additional cost to you).\u00a0<b>I only ever endorse products that I have personally used and benefitted from personally.<\/b>\u00a0Thank you for your support!<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\"><strong>Day 1 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There were over<strong> 2,000 participants<\/strong> in attendance, from <strong>67 countries around the world<\/strong>. \u00a0This was Tony Robbins <strong>70th<\/strong> Date With Destiny event, and everyone in the room was more excited than ever. \u00a0Before attending the event, everyone had to fill out a detailed report and questionnaire that would elicit important information about how you operate, including your values and rules. \u00a0Going through the process helps you <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/@alexlamber\/date-with-destiny-an-honest-review-from-a-skeptical-but-open-minded-participant-7965718f97be\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">learn about yourself<\/a>, but the information is more for Tony Robbins to study for each person in attendance so that he can add as much value as possible and sometimes work with individuals one-on-one. This is important to mention with the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/stefan-dwd.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"stefan dwd\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/stefan-dwd.jpg\" alt=\"stefan dwd\" width=\"367\" height=\"367\" \/><\/a>A big component that I have added in with my Date With Destiny review is that everyone is split up into teams. \u00a0There were I believe between 25 to 30 teams at the event, which means that you're not sitting with or on the same team as whomever you came to the event with. \u00a0Each team has a team name, cheer, and team leaders that help you make the event enjoyable and worthwhile. \u00a0You pick a buddy at the event which you work with closely throughout the 6-days and participate in the exercises with. \u00a0I found this extremely useful, as I attended the event by myself and quickly had some close friendships and a sense of\u00a0camaraderie\u00a0at the event.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Date With Destiny is a self-discovery experience.<\/strong> \u00a0<strong>It's an event where you explore the force that controls every thought, feeling, behaviour, and decision of your life.<\/strong> \u00a0This is known as your Blueprint, or model of the world, which is something that we will be exploring more in-depth later. \u00a0But, your Blueprint consists of your beliefs, values, and rules. \u00a0Most of us didn't consciously select our beliefs, values and rules, which causes us to not move towards or create the ultimate destiny we want for our lives. \u00a0By taking control of these <a href=\"https:\/\/raviraman.com\/8-things-to-know-before-attending-tony-robbins-date-with-destiny\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">areas of your life<\/a>, you are able to be pulled towards the life that you want and your ultimate destiny can be fulfilled.<\/p>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #993300;\">2 Master Skills In Life<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Tony Robbins discusses how there are 2 master skills in life:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>1) The Science of Achievement<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>This is something that most people are already good at, or at least those that were in attendance of the event. \u00a0Most of the planet has only $2\/day to live off of, where most people in North America lives in abundance in comparison. \u00a0It isn't more achievement that is the answer for our lives, even though most of us feel we haven't achieved enough.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>2) The Art of Fulfillment<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>What is missing in most of our lives is a sense of fulfillment. \u00a0With more fulfillment in our lives, we will also naturally achieve more and give more, but ultimately more fulfillment is required to live a rich and meaningful life. With this Date of Destiny review, you can see how there is a relationship between fulfillment, value and your success.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>Success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Robbins talks about how there are only a couple of things that will make you fulfilled, which are:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>1) Growing<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you want one word for happiness, it's <strong>progress<\/strong>. \u00a0When you are making progress towards something or growing, you feel most alive and happy. \u00a0You don't need to be where you want to be today, but as long as you're making progress towards it you will have a sense of happiness and excitement inside of you, something worth mentioning with the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>God knows you are not made to be comfortable, you are made to grow.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Most people get comfortable when things are &#8220;good&#8221;. \u00a0But, you do not want to be just &#8220;good&#8221;. \u00a0Good is the enemy of great. \u00a0Good is the slow death. \u00a0When someone says that they feel &#8220;good&#8221;, it usually means like hell. \u00a0But people use softeners or certain words to avoid feeling how they really feel &#8211; all to avoid the truth and to be comfortable. \u00a0<strong>These softeners limit us from feeling pain. \u00a0<\/strong>The moment you can be honest with yourself, you have an opportunity to grow.<\/p>\n<p>At the event, we learned two new meanings for certain words: <strong>frustration and confusion<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Frustration means you are about to <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/video-blog-day-3-tony-robbins-unleash-the-power-within-review-break-through-to-your-new-life\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">have a breakthrough<\/a>. \u00a0Anytime you feel frustrated, you should quickly convert that into excitement. \u00a0<strong>Confusion means you're about to learn something<\/strong>, as your brain needs to come up with something new. \u00a0Anytime you experience confusion, you should quickly start to celebrate.<\/p>\n<p>Most people perceive problems to be bad. \u00a0<strong>What if problems were always gifts? \u00a0It's up to us to find the gifts.<\/strong> \u00a0You see, anything that doesn't match your blueprint of how you think things should be is what you perceive as a problem. \u00a0But we are the ones that create the problems, as problems are all relative. \u00a0It's the story about the problem that is the problem.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>Every problem you have is life happening for you, not to you.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Tony Robbins says that the <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">#1 problem<\/span> you have is that you think you're not supposed to have any problems. \u00a0People want to have no problems in life, but don't realize that if this was the case they wouldn't grow or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.johnnyfd.com\/2017\/12\/date-with-destiny-guide-review-and.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">become stronger<\/a>. \u00a0They wouldn't be fulfilled, and life would be boring &#8211; they would be miserable. \u00a0The path of least resistance will never make you feel proud, but the path of resistance will always make you grow.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>The secret to life is to constantly be stretching. \u00a0If you can't, then you must.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>2) Giving<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The other thing that will make us fulfilled is a sense of contributing and to be giving. \u00a0When we give, we immediately get outside of ourselves and feel happy. \u00a0<strong>The only reason that we grow is so that we have something to give.<\/strong> \u00a0If we didn't contribute in any way, we'd feel worthless. \u00a0Contribution is a law of the universe, as anything that doesn't contribute in some form gets eliminated by evolution. \u00a0If we all contributed more, we'd have a deeper sense of meaning in our lives and <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/day-4-tony-robbins-unleash-the-power-within-review-the-power-of-pure-energy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">feel more fulfilled<\/a>. My Date of Destiny review highlights this, as I know it is a valuable principle for everything we do.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">What controls the quality of your life?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><strong>The quality of our lives is nothing but the quality of our emotions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Emotion is why someone will run into a building and give their life for a stranger &#8211; the emotion to serve, which comes from a meaning that by giving my own life, I am more significant. \u00a0The minute we experience meaning, it triggers emotion. \u00a0The twin forces of life are meaning and emotion. \u00a0<strong>Meaning is the force that shapes life, emotion is what colors it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>You cannot control the events of your life, only what things mean.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">What controls your ultimate destiny?<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Your destiny is who you are going to become and what you are going to give in this lifetime. \u00a0<strong>What controls your destiny is your decisions.<\/strong> \u00a0Decisions equal destiny, or direction of your life. \u00a0It's our decisions, not our conditions that control our destiny. It's what you decide to do with the conditions. This is the key to the Date of Destiny review and is a highly inspirational way to look at how our lives transform.<\/p>\n<p>Every moment of your life, including this one right now, you are making 3 decisions:<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>1) What to focus on.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>You are constantly focusing on something during every moment. \u00a0Whatever you focus on, you feel. \u00a0Focus equals reality to the individual, even if its not real in actuality. \u00a0And what you focus on is what you get in life. \u00a0We must learn how to control our focus throughout our lives, which will shape which direction we're going.<\/p>\n<p>You can identify someone's destiny based on 3 questions:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Do you focus on what you can control, or can't control?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Do you focus on the past, present or the future?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Do you focus on what you have or what is missing in your life?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>What you focus on will determine whether you are depressed or not. \u00a0Depression is NOT a disease, it's merely a pattern of focus. \u00a0By <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tony-robbins-leadership-academy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">taking control of your focus<\/a>, you are able to radically shift the quality of your life.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>2) What does it mean?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The moment you focus on something, you give it a a meaning. \u00a0Is this good or bad? \u00a0Is this person teasing me or being disrespectful? \u00a0Is this a challenge or a gift?<\/p>\n<p>Most achievers are always trying to control the events of their lives. \u00a0While you can't control all of the events, you can always control the meaning that you give events.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>Meaning = Emotion = Life<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Another word for meaning is your story. \u00a0We come up with stories, or disempowering meanings, that control our lives. \u00a0These stories is what prevents us from taking action or making progress in certain areas. \u00a0You must become a master of meaning and learn to find the good in every situation and come up with more empowering meanings for the events of your life.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>3) What are you going to do?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The meaning you create will usually determine what you're going to do in the moment. \u00a0Your meaning creates a certain state, and your state controls your behaviour. My Date of Destiny review shows exactly how you create what you want and get what you need in return.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The 6 Human Needs<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"anthony robbins date with destiny\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/anthony-robbins-date-with-destiny1.png\" alt=\"anthony robbins date with destiny\" width=\"300\" height=\"448\" \/><\/p>\n<p>An important piece of Tony Robbins work that I highlight with this Date With Destiny review is identifying what your top needs are from the 6 Human Needs. \u00a0We all have 6 needs, or 6 reasons of why we do anything. \u00a0The needs are:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>1) Certainty<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <strong>2) Variety<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <strong>3) Significance<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <strong>4) Connection\/Love<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <strong>5) Growth<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> <strong>6) Contribution<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>One of the biggest breakthroughs I had and am sharing with my Date With Destiny review was changing the needs that I valued most. \u00a0Before Date With Destiny, my top two needs were <strong>1) Significance and 2) Certainty<\/strong>. \u00a0<strong>80% of people in North America have these as their top two needs, whether they know it or not, and the consequences of it are horrific.<\/strong> \u00a0By having significance as my top need I would always compare myself to others and whenever I'd <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/motivational-quotes-tony-robbins\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">achieve something<\/a>, it was never enough. \u00a0I always had to have more, which is an endless loop and you never really get to feel significant. \u00a0It kept me out of relationships, as I was always looking for something better and I never really got to enjoy my accomplishments. \u00a0By valuing certainty as #2, I would stay in my comfort zone and would have to feel certain before I would open up, love, grow, do something crazy, or really give to someone else. \u00a0This was a significant change I made and am sharing with the Date with Destiny review. When I felt uncertain or insignificant, very little love or contribution would flow out of me. \u00a0<strong>The breakthrough I made was changing the needs I valued to being 1) Love and 2) Contribution.<\/strong> \u00a0Now I feel and experience love no matter what, and am always contributing rather than having to feel significant or certain first.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>People are in your life if their needs are constantly being met. \u00a0If their needs are met, they will never leave you. \u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>There were many other big pieces of day 1 that I don't add into this Date With Destiny review, including a powerful exercise we did to change our story and to effectively blame the person in our life that has contributed the most to our story being the way it is. \u00a0I had many breakthroughs, but didn't realize the true breakthroughs were about to come in the next few days.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Day 2 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>On day 2 that I'm covering with the Date With Destiny review, Tony Robbins began talking about something called meta-program, along with the cycle of meaning and the spheres of influence. \u00a0I won't explain meta-programs, as that's a challenging topic to explain, but I will briefly touch on the <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tony-robbins-morning-routine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cycle of meaning<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The Cycle Of Meaning<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Everything that we do, consciously or unconsciously, we do in order to meet one or more of our six human needs. \u00a0Most people have a target they're after, like money or losing weight, the ultimate job, or a great relationship. \u00a0However, these targets are only vehicles that we use to meet our needs, and worth noting with the Date with Destiny review. \u00a0We can always create new targets and hit them constantly, but unless we have our needs met at a deep level and not a surface level, we will not really be happy.<\/p>\n<p>We all develop certain behaviours or actions, whether they be good or bad, to meet our needs. \u00a0To change the behaviour, we need to break the old pattern because it's in your body and programmed to meet your needs, and create a new pattern. \u00a0But what's deeper than the behaviour is the emotions you experience, which is what triggers the behaviour or pattern.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>The quality of life is determined by the quality of our emotions.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>People that engage in destructive behaviours only do it when they are in a certain state: they feel bored, or stressed, or lonely, or anxious. \u00a0Whatever we feel in any given moment will dictate <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/platinum-partnership\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">what we end up doing<\/a>. \u00a0If you change your emotional state, the behaviour changes automatically, as well as what you experience. This was significant for me, and in this Date with Destiny review, I continue to highlight how experiences and behaviors change everything.<\/p>\n<p>The ultimate force behind patterns or behaviour and emotions is your Model of the World, also known as your Blueprint, which consists of your rules and beliefs of why things are the way they are and how things should be. \u00a0Change your beliefs, and you'll change everything. \u00a0This is one of the many great messages that I'm covering with the Date with Destiny review. One of the best ways to make a lasting change in your life is to make a shift in your Identity, which is the sum total of beliefs about who you are. \u00a0If you, for example, adopted the identity of a nutritionist or fitness model, it would automatically transform your behaviours around over-eating or exercise.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The Emotional Triad<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>In any moment in time, the meaning you give to a situation is shaped by your Emotional Triad. \u00a0The Emotional Triad that you currently embody <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tony-robbins-business-mastery-review\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">creates the meaning<\/a>, and the meaning fires off the emotion. \u00a0Therefore, the power to change and expand the fuel of emotions available to you lies in the three patterns of the Triad.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"tony robbins emotional triad\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/emotional-triad.jpg\" alt=\"tony robbins emotional triad\" width=\"288\" height=\"232\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Physiology<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>How you engage your body: your posture, breathing, tone of voice, movement, etc&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Focus<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What you focus on, you feel. \u00a0What is your current pattern of focus? \u00a0What are you giving attention to in the moment?<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Language\/Meaning<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The words you use to describe your experience become your experience. \u00a0Your habitual language patterns create the meaning in any situation.<\/p>\n<p>The quickest way out of pain and into pleasure is by changing the Triad you are <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/anthony-robbins-unlimited-power-book-review\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">experiencing in the moment<\/a>. \u00a0Regardless of the situation, if you shift your Triad powerfully enough, you will transform.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Power Virtues and Incantations<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Another big part of day 2 that I want to mention with this Date with Destiny review was creating your 4 primary Power Virtues and using the power of Incantations to really condition them into your nervous system. \u00a0The 4 Power Virtues that I selected for myself are, <strong>1) I am confident, 2) I am determined, 3) I am loving, and 4) I am happy. \u00a0<\/strong>These are the emotional states that I need to most tap into in order to really live the life I want.<\/p>\n<p>We then used Incantations to condition these new beliefs and virtues into our nervous system. \u00a0An incantation is a phrase or language pattern that is said out loud and with an actively engaged physiology. \u00a0Incantations involve all 3 areas of the Emotional Triad, including focus, language and physiology.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>Speak that which you wish to become.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>\u00a0Some sample incantations that we spoke at Date With Destiny are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><em><strong>All I need is within me now.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><em><strong>I love my life and I am so blessed.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><em><strong>At last at last the past is past;<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>I've broken free and won.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>And now it's time to love myself<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>And really have some fun.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><em><strong>God's wealth is circulating in my life.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>His wealth flows to me in avalanches of abundance. <\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>All my needs, desires, and goals are met instantaneously<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>by infinite intelligence and I give thanks<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>for all my good now and for all God's riches<\/strong><\/em><\/span><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"> <em><strong>for I am one with God and God is everything.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Oneness Blessing<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/oneness-blessing.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"oneness blessing\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/oneness-blessing.jpg\" alt=\"oneness blessing\" width=\"393\" height=\"262\" \/><\/a>One of my favourite parts of Date With Destiny was experiencing a <strong>Oneness Blessing<\/strong>, which was one of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life. \u00a0It's difficult to explain, as it's something you need to experience, but Tony shared about how him and his wife experienced this blessing which transformed their lives &#8211; they felt causeless joy and they eventually went to India to the <strong>Oneness University<\/strong> to learn more about how to experience these types of blessings.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone in the room got in a meditative state and cleared out our chakras, and then had these Oneness Blessers come by and touch us on our head, which gave me a profound experience. \u00a0It's difficult to explain my experience, but it was incredible, and something I plan on further exploring. \u00a0We did two types of Oneness Blessings at the event, the first one definitely had more of an impact on me. This was something that was unexpected, which is why I'm mentioning it during the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Your Primary Question<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Another one of the most powerful parts of day 2 was discovering what my past Primary Question was, and then replacing it with a new Primary Question. \u00a0Tony describes how we all have a primary question &#8211; a question we ask everyday of our lives that <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/plan-day-evernote-tony-robbins-rpm\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">controls our focus<\/a> and direction of our lives.<\/p>\n<p>My past Primary Question was <em><strong>&#8220;How can I become better?&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>My Primary Question had benefitted me for years, as I was always focused on becoming better everyday, but also limited me without me realizing it, and which became conscious during the Date with Destiny review. \u00a0The limitation was that it would pre-suppose that I already wasn't good enough. \u00a0I changed my Primary Question to now be:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>How can I become even better, while appreciating even more of who I am and the love that is inside of me right now?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I added the words &#8220;even better&#8221; and the second piece, which allows me now to appreciate who I currently am, where I'm at, and the love that is inside of me (which is what I'm really after in life).<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Day 3 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>During day 3, we began to explore spirituality and the levels of consciousness. \u00a0Tony Robbins measures your level of consciousness by your level of caring. This was an intriguing addition to the Date with Destiny review. \u00a0The more that you care, the more conscious you are. \u00a0Consciousness change is a change in caring. \u00a0He models this work from Dr. Graves, author of Spiral Dynamics.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Levels of Consciousness<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 5px;\" title=\"consciousness\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/consciousness.jpg\" alt=\"consciousness\" width=\"350\" height=\"234\" \/>There are four levels of consciousness:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Egocentric<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All babies are born egocentric, or selfish. \u00a0This is only being focused on yourself.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Ethnocentric<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is when you are no longer completely selfish and begin to care about your family, your friends, the people in your circle. \u00a0In short, you care about those who have the ability to give you pain or pleasure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Worldcentric<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is where you care about everyone. \u00a0While it's easy to say you care about everyone, true caring is demonstrated by emotional connectivity: you feel pain when someone else feels pain, and you try to do something to try to help them get out of it. \u00a0They can't give you pain or pleasure, but you care because you feel a connection. \u00a0And your caring leads to action. \u00a0Likewise, you feel joy for those who feel joy, even though they have no ability to affect your life.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Spirit-centric<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you're spirit-centric, you care about everything: every animal, every creature, every facet of nature (rocks, trees, the sky, etc.), not just humans. \u00a0Few people on earth reach this level of consciousness, to the point where they couldn't imagine hurting an insect let alone another human being.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What creates your problems is operating at a low level of consciousness.<\/strong> \u00a0To get out of a problem, you need to get in a higher level of consciousness.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Values And Rules<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Your values and rules control all of <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/money-master-game-tony-robbins-7-simple-steps-financial-freedom\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">your decision making<\/a>. \u00a0Everything is controlled by your beliefs and values.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A value is an emotional state that we believe is most important for us to experience or avoid.<\/strong> \u00a0There are two types of values:\u00a0<strong>Towards Values<\/strong> and <strong>Away From Values<\/strong>. You will notice that in this Date with Destiny review, values, emotions and higher levels of consciousness are always a part of Tony Robbins central message. \u00a0Towards values are anything that we're trying to move towards, such as happiness, love, passion, success, security, gratitude, energy, peace, freedom, etc&#8230; \u00a0Away from values are anything we're trying to move away from, such as failure, loneliness, rejection, anger, depression, sadness, boredom, anxiety, overwhelm, guilt, etc&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>To help discover your top values, you need to ask yourself:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>1) Which value do you work hardest to experience?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Which value do you work hardest to avoid?<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Most of us have our values in conflict. \u00a0We want success, but are trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/national-achievers-congress-with-tony-robbins-gary-vaynerchuk-robert-herjavec-lessons-insights\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">avoid failure or rejection<\/a>. \u00a0That doesn't work, as in order to experience success, you're going to have to face failure and rejection. \u00a0Anytime your values are in conflict, then you will sabotage yourself or be immobilized to take action.<\/p>\n<p>We all have a\u00a0hierarchy\u00a0of values that are most important to us that we work harder to try to experience. \u00a0The hierarchy will determine the direction or destiny we experience. \u00a0If you value security #1, you will make radically different decisions in life than someone who values adventure as #1. \u00a0What I'm mentioning wiht the Date With Destiny review, we do a lot of exercises and in-depth work to discover our current values and then figure out what our ultimate destiny will be and the values we will need, in the order we need them, to achieve that ultimate destiny.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Our Rules are the beliefs we have about what has to happen to experience our values, or emotional states.<\/strong> \u00a0For many, they have the belief that in order to feel happy they need to make a certain amount of money, or achieve a certain goal or objective. \u00a0For others, in order to be happy they just need to smile, or feel grateful. \u00a0You want your rules to be as easy as possible for you to experience your Towards Values, so you can feel them on a daily basis. \u00a0For our Away From Values, we have rules to feel depressed or anger. \u00a0For some, to feel depressed they believe they need to not have any control over their lives, have nothing go their way, not be where they want to be, etc&#8230; whereas for others, they hardly experience depression because their rule is that to feel depression you have to lie to yourself and not appreciate anything in your life. \u00a0You want to change your rules around your Away From Values so that it becomes very difficult for you to experience the negative emotions, so you'll feel them a lot less.<\/p>\n<p>During day 3, we also did a Goal Setting Workshop to discover what our ultimate destiny is and who we want to become. An essential part of my growth and a part of the Date with Destiny review. \u00a0We set specific goals, many of which I have listed in <a title=\"My 2013 New Year Resolutions: Goal Setting Workshop\" href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/my-2013-new-year-resolutions-goal-setting-workshop\/\">my 2013 New Year Resolutions<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Day 4 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/love-relationships.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"love relationships\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/love-relationships.jpg\" alt=\"love relationships\" width=\"346\" height=\"259\" \/><\/a>Day 4 that I am covering with the Date With Destiny review was all about relationships! \u00a0It's one of the most powerful days, as Tony Robbins performs many interventions and turns many relationships and marriages around. \u00a0Tony is constantly doing interventions and working with the audience on the other days, but during day 4 it was really the most fascinating.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>What is the purpose of relationships? \u00a0To magnify human emotion.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>There is nothing on this planet that will make you grow more spiritually than a relationship, as a relationship brings up our deepest fears of not being enough and not being loved. \u00a0In order to have a fulfilling relationship, you must get rid of the belief that your partner determines how you feel &#8211; only we determine how we feel.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Masculine And Feminine Polarity<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Sexual attraction, spiritual ecstasy, and intimate connection thrives in a relationship when there is a distinct polarity between the energies of the individuals involved. \u00a0In other words, the more opposed the sexual energies between two people are (male vs. female energy), the stronger the attraction will be in the relationship. \u00a0Sexual polarity is the term used for the physical chemistry, the magnetic pull, and the overwhelming physical response we feel when we meet someone with the energy opposite to our own. \u00a0If two people have a similar polarity, then the attraction between them will be diminished. An unusual addition that I'm able to bring up with the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<p>Tony Robbins describes the different qualities and traits of masculine and feminine. \u00a0<strong>Masculine is all about direction, purpose, wanting to experience freedom, is stimulated by challenge, etc&#8230;<\/strong> whereas <strong>feminine is all about being free, open, flowing, wanting to experience love, wants to be understood, wants to be owned, stimulated by praise, etc&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There are different types of masculine and feminine energy, what Tony Robbins calls Dark Masculine and Light Masculine, along with Dark Feminine and Light Feminine. \u00a0I don't have enough time to go into details of this, but David Deida in the book <a title=\"The Way of the Superior Man\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1591792576\/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1591792576&linkCode=as2&tag=faschipoxcur-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">The Way of the Superior Man<\/a> talks about a lot of these principles which is a book worth reading if you're a man!<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The 5 Relationship Stressors<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are 5 pitfalls in a relationship, called the 5 Relationship Stressors, listed below:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Loss of Attraction<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Irritation, Frustration, Emotional Stacking and Stonewalling<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Loss of Physical Passion<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Loss of Commitment<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>5) Story of Incompatibility<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I've attached a video below of Tony Robbins and Sage discussing the 5 Relationship Stressors, if you want to learn more about it:<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Tony Robbins Relationship Stressors\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=sqNaJNQTVTw\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>(Click here to watch the video on YouTube)<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I found the 4 R's to be useful, which stand for: <strong>Resistance, Resentment, Rejection and Repression<\/strong>. \u00a0Ultimately, you can avoid them by communicating in your relationship how you feel so that you don't build up any resistance and resentment, which leads to the last two which are deadly.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Lack Of Intimacy<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are certain things that Tony Robbins pointed out that made a lot of sense to me and light bulbs went off and which I'm sharing with this Date with Destiny review. \u00a0He says there's three things that shut down lack of intimacy in men and for women.<\/p>\n<p><strong>For women, what shuts down intimacy is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>1) Feeling unseen.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Give her attention, all the time!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Feeling unsafe\/can't trust.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Give her reassurance, all the time!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Feeling that she is not understood.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Give her real presence, all the time!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>For men, what shuts down intimacy is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>1) Being criticized.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Admire and appreciate.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Feeling closed.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Be open and playful.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Feeling controlled.<\/strong><strong>Solution:<\/strong> <em>Give freedom and love.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">The Three Dimensions of a Relationship<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There are three dimensions of a relationship, similar to the three levels of love that Tony Robbins describes that I mentioned in the <a title=\"Day 1: Tony Robbins \u2013 Unleash The Power Within Review \u2013 Turn Fear Into Power\" href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/video-blog-day-1-tony-robbins-unleash-the-power-within-review-turn-fear-into-power\/\">Unleash The Power Within review<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1 Dimensional: It's all about yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your focus is on what you are getting out of the relationship. \u00a0You try to control things in the relationship based on the outside world. \u00a0You are at an egocentric level.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2 Dimensional: It's all about equality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Your focus is both on meeting your needs as well as your partners. \u00a0Your belief is that &#8220;I will take care of myself, you will take care of yourself, and we will try to take care of each other. \u00a0If I can't meet your needs, however, I'm out of the relationship.&#8221; You are playing at an ethnocentric level.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3 Dimensional: Your needs are my needs.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a stage three relationship, you take total responsibility for how the other person feels. \u00a0You will not stop or give up for any reason until you meet your partner's needs. \u00a0This is a three-dimensional relationship; you are at a world- or spirit-centric level. An important lesson I learned and am sharing with the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Day 5 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/date-with-destiny-anthony-robbins.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"date with destiny anthony robbins\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/date-with-destiny-anthony-robbins.jpg\" alt=\"date with destiny anthony robbins\" width=\"346\" height=\"259\" \/><\/a>Day 5 is called <strong>&#8220;Transformation Day&#8221;<\/strong>, as it's the day where we create our new values and rules for our lives.<\/p>\n<p>Most of this day was working with our buddy and spending countless hours discovering our new values and rules to the point where our brain turned to mush. \u00a0I'm not going to go into the details of the entire process, as there were countless examples and it's quite a complicating and gruelling process, but it involves <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tony-robbins-unleash-power-within-music-playlist\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">analyzing every value<\/a> in a specific order and a lot of deep thought to discover the new values you want and the rules for them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My new towards values, which I mentioned in my video, are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>1) Health & Energy<\/strong><strong>2) Love<\/strong><strong>3) Happy & Grateful<\/strong><strong>4) Passion<\/strong><strong>5) Confidence & Presence<\/strong><strong>6) Physically Fit<\/strong><strong>7) Success & Achievement<\/strong><strong>8) Fun & Adventure<\/strong><strong>9) Learn & Grow<\/strong><strong>10) Being My Best<\/strong><strong>11) Investing<\/strong><strong>12) Contributing<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>The biggest breakthrough that I would like to give you with this Date with Destiny review was getting rid of significance from my #1 value and putting love, happy, grateful, passion, etc&#8230; above being physically fit and success. \u00a0This shift made me go from achieving to be happy, to now happily achieving. \u00a0That is a world of difference for me, and I feel it everyday.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Some of my new rules for these values are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I experience health and energy anytime I a) do anything that increases my physical well-being; or b) take a deep breath; or c) consume fruits and vegetables; or d) drink water; or e) focus on positive thoughts or be in a positive state.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I experience love anytime I a) am loving; or b) am warm towards others; or c) focus on and remember the love that is always in my heart; or d) connect with God; or e) my state enhances the way others feel.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I experience happiness and gratitude anytime I a) remember and appreciate all of the good that already exists in my life; or b) feel thankful for God or anyone else; or c) wake up another day alive.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see, I have a menu of options, I'm in control of all of them, and it's very easy for me to achieve the values that I want to feel each day. \u00a0This is setting myself up to win.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My new away from values are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><strong>1) Consistent, Debilitating Depression<\/strong><strong>2)\u00a0Consistent, Debilitating Laziness & Procrastination<\/strong><strong>3) Consistent, Debilitating Unworthiness<\/strong><strong>4) Consistent, Inappropriate Tired & Exhaustion<\/strong><strong>5) Consistent, Debilitating Doubt<\/strong><strong>6) Consistent, Inappropriate Overwhelm<\/strong><strong>7) Consistent, Inappropriate Frustration<\/strong><strong>8) Consistent, Inappropriate, Debilitating\u00a0Anger & Annoyed<\/strong><strong>9) Consistent, Inappropriate Boredom<\/strong><strong>10) Consistent, Debilitating, Inappropriate Shyness<\/strong><strong>11) Consistent, Debilitating Illusion of Failure<\/strong><strong>12) Consistent, Inappropriate Illusion of Rejection<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>As you can see, I added consistent, inappropriate and debilitating before many of these values as it is sometimes useful to experience these emotions, but not consistently or in debilitating or inappropriate ways.This is an essential part of the Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Some of my new rules for these values are:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of depression only if I were to consistently lie to myself and believe that I have no control over anything, instead of remembering how fortunate I really am and that I am in control of my life and how I feel.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of laziness and procrastination only if I were to consistently do absolutely nothing that move me towards my ultimate destiny for a period of time, instead of realizing that I can easily make progress by taking simple actions.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of unworthiness only if I were to consistently lie to myself about how I am not enough, instead of remembering the truth that I am someone of value and that everything in my life is outstanding.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>As you can see from these new rules, it's very difficult for me now to experience depression, laziness, procrastination or unworthiness. \u00a0I've languaged them so that I'd have to lie to myself or have a false belief about these feelings, instead of remembering the truth.<\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Mission Statement<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>We also spent time on day 5 creating our mission statement, also known as the purpose of our life. \u00a0We had to make sure our mission statement had &#8220;be&#8221; and &#8220;do&#8221; statements, was stated in the positive, included ourselves and others, was brief, able to experience it daily, and use emotionally charged words that make us happy.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My mission statement is:<\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"color: #3366ff;\"><strong>The purpose of my life is to be even more fully alive, grow and make a difference in the lives of others.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>This is something that empowers me daily and something that I can look at on my wall and it gets me motivated to take action. \u00a0At the core, it lifts me up and feels congruent to how I want to be living my life. This was a powerful part that I'm covering with this Date with Destiny review.<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #993300;\">Day 6 Of Date With Destiny Review<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/tony-robbins-quote.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 10px;\" title=\"tony robbins quote\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/tony-robbins-quote.jpg\" alt=\"tony robbins quote\" width=\"392\" height=\"229\" \/><\/a>The final day I cover with the Date With Destiny review was called <strong>&#8220;Integration Day&#8221;<\/strong>, as it allowed us to fully integrate our values, rules, mission statement, power virtues, primary question, and everything that we learned as part of our life. \u00a0We ended up making a cool poster that I displayed in my video and now hang on my wall so that I can see everyday.<\/p>\n<p>One of the ways that we integrated these changes is through teaming up in a group of 4 and having to use incantations and a lot of energy to really condition our brains to believe these new changes. \u00a0We used an incantation that we would say, <em>&#8220;I, Stefan, see, hear, know, and feel that the purpose of my life is to XYZ.&#8221;<\/em> \u00a0We would have to use intense levels of energy while doing it, and were only able to move onto the next section until everyone in our group was satisfied and agreed that the person speaking was congruent with the new belief or value.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Overall, Date With Destiny was by far one of the most incredible, life-changing experiences of my life.<\/strong> \u00a0There was so much material and <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/the-knowledge-business-blueprint\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">powerful lessons<\/a> to take away from the event, and I'm still digesting it over a month later! \u00a0I feel that most of the changes I made were\u00a0permanent\u00a0and are now apart of who I am. \u00a0Of course, it wasn't a magic pill and all of my problems aren't solved, but I made a lot of changes from the experience and am happier and more fulfilled because of it. \u00a0I continue to do my best to implement the strategies and lessons I learned from it and make sure I'm applying it as much as I can. \u00a0I'll never forget my experience during Date With Destiny with Tony Robbins, and look forward to attending some of his other higher level programs and even re-attending for another Date With Destiny review at some point in the future.<\/p>\n<p>I hope you enjoyed this Date With Destiny review. \u00a0I'd love to hear what you think, especially if you've attended Date With Destiny before, or been to Unleash The Power Within, or are thinking of attending it. \u00a0Just post your comments below and I'll be sure to answer.<\/p>\n<p><strong>FULL DISCLOSURE<\/strong>: Since I did this video, I was actually contacted by the Tony Robbins team to partner with them in their affiliate program, as well as to offer my subscribers a $20 off site-wide coupon on orders over $100. \u00a0So <strong>if you want to purchase any Tony Robbins programs or products, <a href=\"http:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/tonyrobbins\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE<\/a> and use the coupon code MASTERY on checkout to save $20.<\/strong> \u00a0Please note that I am now an &#8220;affiliate&#8221; for Tony Robbins and benefit financially if you decide to purchase through my link.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/cl518.isrefer.com\/go\/opt-in\/a341\/blogtrdwd\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/Tony-Robbins-Knowledge-Business-Blueprint.jpg\" alt=\"Tony Robbins Knowledge Business Blueprint\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><b data-stringify-type=\"bold\">Are you ready to turn what you already know into next level success and impact? <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/kbb2-blog-closing\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" aria-describedby=\"slack-kit-tooltip\">CLICK HERE<\/a> to join Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi\u2019s Knowledge Broker Blueprint!<\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you need help with your knowledge business? <a href=\"https:\/\/projectlifemastery.com\/knowledge-broker-blueprint-bonus\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">CLICK HERE<\/a> to get $11,334 in FREE bonuses, at no additional cost to you, when you join Knowledge Broker Blueprint!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After attending Tony Robbin&#8217;s signature event Unleash The Power Within 5 times within the last 5 years, I decided to finally step up and attend his most advanced program, Date With Destiny in Palm Springs of December 2012. 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