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You must DO THIS before it's too late.

The wisdom that I'm going to share with you inside this blog will save you years of pain and suffering in your future.

Not only that, but it can lead to you transforming your entire life. I've learned a lot of hard lessons over the years, as I'm sure many of you have as well.

Luckily, I was willing to learn from my mistakes and grow. The way I see it, we always have a choice.

We can either improve and move forward or stay in one place and regress. If you're ready to discover the one thing that you must do before it's too late, keep reading…

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Self-improvement is my biggest priority in life.

I've been obsessively focused on self-development for the last 17 years. For almost two decades I've been focused on improving and mastering every aspect of my life. When I first started my self-improvement journey, I was so excited to share the concepts and resources that I was learning with my family and friends.

You would think that others would be interested in learning more about the very things that were changing my life for the better, right? Unfortunately, I was met by some of my family members and friends with resistance, doubt, and skepticism. I even had people make fun of me.

They didn't believe in what I was learning. Why? Now I know that it was because they had a fixed mindset. This way of thinking assumes that one's character, intelligence, and creative ability are static givens that cannot be changed.

I don't understand this way of thinking.

I've always had a growth mindset in that I've been open to everything and attached to nothing. Over the last 17 years, despite others' judgment and criticisms, I stayed open-minded. I made it my mission to grow and stretch myself.

Over the years, the people who once doubted my self-development journey have become a lot more open-minded to the things that I had once shared with them. They started asking me for help when they were experiencing challenges in their lives. In effect, they finally encountered their emotional threshold. Their pain was so strong that change became a must.

People don't change their lives when things are comfortable.

Rather, they change when they are forced. It's usually when they hit their “rock bottom” moment. It's never too late to change your life. When we are in pain it's natural to want to blame the world or others for our problems, but this mindset gets you nowhere.

It takes away your power and inhibits your ability to change. Don't let your mind get the best of you. Take responsibility for your life. Decide that you deserve more because you do. If you could have an even better experience of life than you already have, should you pursue it? Of course!!

Never settle for mediocrity. Yes, it takes a lot of courage and willpower to change your life. When it comes to finding the motivation to change, it all comes down to how much pain and pleasure you associate with achieving and not achieving your goal.

If you're struggling to find the motivation to change your life, ask yourself the hard question, “What is the consequence of not changing? How will my life get worse if I don't take control of my life now?” Let your pain be your fuel.

DO THIS before it's too late!

Believe that your life can be better. There is so much potential inside of you that is waiting to be unleashed. Give yourself the gift of growth. In the words of John C. Maxell, “Change is inevitable. Growth is optional.”

The world will continue to change and evolve, but will you? You can choose to be an example of what is possible or a warning of what happens when you don't take responsibility for your life. Choose wisely.

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The Mindset Of Success And Happiness https://projectlifemastery.com/the-mindset-of-success/ https://projectlifemastery.com/the-mindset-of-success/#respond Wed, 08 May 2019 15:21:59 +0000 https://projectlifemastery.com/?p=10116 Your mindset predicts and determines your future. Want to know the secret for how to create the mindset of success and happiness? Click here for more!

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The mindset of success and happiness can radically transform your entire experience of life.

Your mindset predicts and determines your future, and it is completely under your control. You decide how you feel, think and act. Not anyone else.

The reality is that if you don’t learn how to control your mind, it will most definitely control you. In the words of Charles R Swindoll, “Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.” 

If you want to know how to create the mindset of success and happiness, keep reading!

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Your mindset is everything.

Decades of research by Carol Dweck shows that your mindset predicts your level of success and well-being in life. When your personal belief system works for you instead of against you, there is nothing you cannot do.

As a content creator, I'm always trying to add value and instill within the people the importance of developing the mindset of success and happiness. People receive the exact same content from me. However, some follow through and take action, while others discredit the information and say that it doesn't work. Why does this happen? I ask myself this question a lot.

After careful reflection, I've realized that we all have a mindset that determines our experience of life. Each of us ascribes meaning to the events in our lives. When those meanings are viewed through a distorted lens, this is when trouble ensues. Unfortunately, a lot of people allow their limiting beliefs to take over their lives. There could be an insane amount of value in front of them, but they can't see it because of their blind spots.

I believe that you have two choices in life – you can either blame events for your lack of results, or you can change your response to those events. I have adopted a specific belief system that serves me well, so much so, that I am able to approach every experience in life from a positive lens.

When it comes to receiving value from something, my expectations are very low.

Because of this, I always receive value from everything. By choosing to look for the good and apply that energy into my life, it ensures that I always have positive experiences.

For example, if I invest in a training program I always ask myself if I learned something that may benefit me now or in the future. I'm not looking for instant gratification because I'm thinking long-term. At the end of the day, success is a process. It's a journey towards becoming the best version of yourself, even if you don't get the outcome that you hoped for. When you make it a priority to take control of your mindset, you shift your reality.

How would your life change if you created the mindset of success and happiness?

Regardless of your experiences in life, the mindset that you have will always trump everything. Success is 80% psychology and 20% skill. When you understand the ways in which your psychology can work for you, it will help you achieve the success that you desire.

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Take Control Of Your Life RIGHT NOW https://projectlifemastery.com/take-control-of-your-life/ https://projectlifemastery.com/take-control-of-your-life/#respond Sat, 04 Nov 2017 14:00:11 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=7001 Your mind can be your best friend or your worst enemy. Are you ready to learn how you can take control of your life RIGHT NOW? Click here to learn more!

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Life is short. Take control of your life RIGHT NOW. The mind is a powerful tool that can be your best friend or your worst enemy.

Research shows that, in one day, we think around 70,000 thoughts. Ask yourself, “Are you in charge of these thoughts, or are they in charge of you?”

Many of us spend a lot of time taking care of our bodies, our businesses, and our relationships. However, when it comes to our minds, we fail to pay attention.

If you want to live a happy and successful life, it is imperative that you master your mindIncredible things happen in your life when you decide to take control of your life.

In the words of Leon Brown, “It begins and ends in your mind. What you give power to, has power over you, if you allow it.”

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It’s a lot easier to be mentally strong when life is easy, however the reality is that we grow the most when we are faced with challenges.

Mental strength is more that just motivation; it requires hard work, commitment, and a sheer determination to succeed.

Making the conscious choice to develop the skills that will increase your mental strength is one of the best ways to prepare you for the obstacles that life will throw at you.

Take control of your life RIGHT NOW.

Mentally strong people understand how important it is to develop healthy habits for their mind, body, and soul. They take ownership and responsibility for everything that happens in their lives.

Alternatively, mentally weak people tend to drop into victim mode and blame the world for their problems. They feel sorry for themselves, which is oftentimes a way of meeting their needs for love and attention from others.

You don’t have control over the external world. All that you have control over is your mind and emotions. There are people in this world that are in the exact same circumstance as you, and yet they may have a totally different emotional experience.

How do you react and interpret the events that occur in your life? Do you use challenges as opportunities for growth, or do you run away, letting your emotions get the best of you? If it’s the latter, it’s time to take control of your life RIGHT NOW.

Neuroscience is showing us that the brain is plastic, endowed with a lifelong capacity to reorganize itself with each new experience. You have the power to reprogram your mind, and develop the mental skills that will allow you to master your life.

Here are 3 ways to take control of your life RIGHT NOW:

1. Develop Self-Awareness

If you want to take control of your life RIGHT NOW, you need to, first and foremost, develop self-awareness. Self-awareness is the foundation of personal growth and success.

You cannot be mentally strong without the ability to understand and effectively manage your emotional state. The good news is that emotional intelligence is a flexible skill, and one that you can develop every day, by living more mindfully.

A great exercise for doing this is creating a daily meditation practice. Research shows that if you bring meditation into your daily life, you will not only become more self-aware, but it will also improve your overall health and well-being

 2. Create A Morning Ritual

I am a big believer in the power of morning rituals.  Recent research demonstrates that rituals can have a causal impact on people’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. 

Creating a positive daily routine builds up your mental strength, allowing you to optimize your mind for greatness.

In the words of Tony Schwartz, the CEO of The Energy Project, “Build highly-specific behaviors that you do at precise times over and over again until you don’t have to use energy to get yourself to do it anymore.” Developing healthy habits is one of the most effective ways to create lasting change in your life.

3. Focus On The Positive

You can’t be mentally strong and experience negative emotions at the same time. Having a positive mindset means that you focus on what is already in front of you, instead of dwelling on what is not.

By shifting your perspective to a mindset that focuses on possibilities, you expand your opportunities in life. This is supported by research that shows that positive emotions broaden your sense of possibility and open your mind up to more options.

Take control of your life RIGHT NOW. The sooner that you master your mind, the sooner that you will be free to create the life of your dreams. In the words of Lao Tzu, “If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place.”

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IS IT TOO LATE FOR YOU? https://projectlifemastery.com/is-it-too-late-for-you/ https://projectlifemastery.com/is-it-too-late-for-you/#comments Wed, 04 Oct 2017 15:02:06 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6880 Is it too late for you? You may have asked yourself this question before. The answer is NO! Today I'm going to show you why it's never too late.

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Is it too late for you? You may have asked yourself this question before. The answer is NO!

Adopting the mindset that ‘it’s too late’ to chase your dreams, is just a negative belief system that holds you back from achieving the success that you desire.

Don’t let that voice in your heard dictate your reality. I want you to be successful and be able to actualize your potential, and the best place to start doing that is by dropping the story that ‘it’s too late.’

Is it too late for you? It’s never too late. In fact, it’s just the beginning. In the words of George Eliot, “It’s never too late to be what you might have been.” There is no better time than today to create the life of your dreams.

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Most of us have no idea about the future potential of things because we aren’t open to the discovery of them. Is there still potential to make money on Amazon, YouTube, or Kindle?

Of course!

These platforms are huge, and they continue to grow on a daily basis. There are more people that are buying online than ever before. The number of buyers who make purchases online is growing. According to forecasts by Forrester Research Inc., the ecommerce market is expected to reach $1.1 trillion in the next five years. It’s fair to say that e-commerce is proving to be the way of the future.

Is it too late for you? These numbers prove that it is not. The Internet is still in its infancy. Research shows that only 2.8 billion people of the 7 billion people on the planet have access to Internet. Companies like Google are on a mission to bring the Internet to 7 billion people around the world.

What do you think that means for people like you and I, who either have an online business or who aspire to start one? That amounts to billions of additional potential customers.

Is it going to be hard work? Yes, because anything of value in life is. You don’t want it to be easy, because if it was, everybody would do it, and then it wouldn’t have any value. Adding massive value is what gives you a competitive advantage.

The sooner that you start in life, the better. People underestimate the power of compounding. The most valuable asset that you have is time.

When you start investing in something and commit to consistently growing it over time, it can compound beyond your wildest dreams.

An example of someone that best represents the impact of long-term compounding is Warren Buffett. He is a master at achieving big things, with small actions, that builds up over time.

If you want to see the impact of compounding in your own life and business, you need to do the work.

Is it too late for you? Absolutely not!

If you think it is too late, you will never achieve the results that you desire. Who cares WHEN you will achieve success? All that matters is that it happens.

The past is gone. The present is all that you have control over. You can either tell yourself that it’s too late to get started, or you can just get started and bank on the fact that you WILL succeed over the long-term, because opportunities continue to grow on a massive scale.

I got involved in a lot of things late in my life, but I’ve still been able to prosper from them, because I refused to hold onto the story that ‘I missed the boat.’ Don’t allow limiting beliefs to dictate your happiness and success in life.

You can settle and accept life as it is, or you can take a leap of faith TODAY and start building your future.

Is it too late for you? I promise that it isn’t. Just get started, focus, commit to doing the hard work, and actively pursue the abundant opportunities that exist in the world.

I promise that your future self will thank you for it.

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What It’s REALLY Like To Be A Millionaire https://projectlifemastery.com/millionaire/ https://projectlifemastery.com/millionaire/#comments Sun, 24 Sep 2017 15:07:20 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6818 People have an idealized notion of what it means to be a millionaire. Do you want to know what it's REALLY like to be millionaire? Click here to learn more!

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What it’s REALY like to be a millionaire. Is this something you have ever thought about? Many people have an idealized notion of what it means to be a millionaire.

Just because someone is a millionaire, that doesn’t necessarily mean that their lifestyle aligns with their bank account.

Most successful millionaires do not live how you think they do. Not only that, but they set themselves apart from others by the skills that they have mastered; like confidence, discipline, emotional intelligence, and money management; to name a few.

Becoming a millionaire doesn’t happen overnight. I know that many of you have goals and aspirations of joining the ‘millionaire club’ one day, so I’m happy to share my story with you.

Are you ready to learn what it’s REALLY like to be a millionaire? You may be surprised by what I have to say.

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Since I was 17 years old, becoming a millionaire was a goal of mine. I became a millionaire when I was 28 years old.  When I achieved the label of ‘millionaire', it didn’t mean that much to me, like I thought it would.

A more pivotal moment in my life was the point at which I was making a 6-figure salary. That is when my life transformed. I was able to travel, quit my 9-5 job, and I didn’t have to worry about money. I had finally achieved financial freedom.

This is what it’s REALLY like to be a millionaire.

A lot of people get consumed with the idea of making ‘big’ money, fast. Adopting this get rich quick mentality can be a form of ego gratification or an insecurity.

When you are obsessed with making a lot of money, it is easy to lose sight of what really matters most in life – happiness. The fact is that money does not buy happiness.

Research shows that wealth may make it harder for you to appreciate simple pleasures in life, and that’s bad news for your mindset, given that most of life is made up of simple moments that have a lasting impact on our lives.

Michael Norton, co-author of the book, Happy Money: The Science of Happier Spending, suggests that, while this is all well and good, the simple pleasures in life don’t seem as exciting as the extraordinary ones.

However, he points out that you can shift this perspective by giving up a simple pleasure for a period of time, which will allow you to savor it even more when you bring it back into your life.

Oftentimes our favorite moments in life don’t involve extravagant things. Rather, they are simple things, like a conversation that left you laughing for hours with people that you love.

This is what it’s REALLY like to be a millionaire.

As many of you know, I preach the value of life mastery. I believe that relationships, health, and positive emotions trump money. You can have all the money in the world, but still be depressed, lonely, and unhealthy. In my eyes, that’s not a definition of success. That’s failure.

I know that I said earlier that I don’t think that money can buy happiness, but there are some circumstances where I believe that it can.

Money allows you to travel the world and experience new and exciting things. Memories of places that I’ve gone and the people whom I’ve shared those experiences with have brought an abundance of joy and happiness to my life.

Money also allows you to invest in yourself. If you aren’t growing, you are dying. The more that you are progressing in life, the happier you will be. For example, I am able to purchase things like a PEMF EarthPulse mat for my bed, which improves my sleep, so that I can perform at my best, every day.

Lastly, one of the biggest things that money provides you with is time. When you leverage it correctly, you can use time to do more of what you really love.

To make a million dollars you need to become someone of value and develop incredible habits that translate to all areas of your life. That is what I am most proud of in my life. The money that I’ve made as a result of the work I’ve done is merely a secondary benefit.

This is what it’s REALLY like to be a millionaire.

Jim Rohn once said, “The greatest reward in becoming a millionaire is not the amount of money that you earn. It is the kind of person that you have to become to become a millionaire.”

Are you ready to upgrade your lifestyle? Be proactive and strive to become the best version of yourself. When you commit to life mastery, anything is possible.

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If You’re Afraid Of Making Mistakes, Watch This. https://projectlifemastery.com/afraid-of-making-mistakes/ https://projectlifemastery.com/afraid-of-making-mistakes/#comments Mon, 21 Aug 2017 14:06:32 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6641 Mistakes are a normal part of life. If something doesn't work out, it doesn't mean that you are a failure. If you're afraid of making mistakes, watch this!

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If you’re afraid of making mistakes, I’m here to help you conquer that fear. Mistakes are a normal part of life. We all fall short from time to time.

Unfortunately, failure is often frowned up, and is associated with feelings of anger and shame. The truth is that the journey towards success is paved with failures that test our ability to rise above disappointment or flounder in self-pity.

It all comes down to your mindset. Research shows that people who adopt a growth mindset are more likely to be able to accept mistakes because they know that they are a key part of the learning process.

If you’re afraid of making mistakes, don’t be. The truth is that if you want to succeed, you need to fail more often, because it is through failure that you learn some of your most valuable lessons in life.

In the words of Tony Robbins, “No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.”

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Many people live and act in ways to ensure that they never make mistakes. They don’t take risks or step outside of their comfort zones for fear that they will fail. In doing so, they never take action or look forward.

When I was 17 years old I didn’t think that my life was going anywhere. I was shy, depressed, didn’t have any friends, and would drown my sorrows in video games. I was comfortable living inside of my bubble, and I wasted away my days. This was a big mistake.

It wasn’t until I took the leap, experimented with new things, made mistakes, and did the very things that I thought I could never do, that I was able to become the person that I am today.

In her latest book, Stop Playing Safe: Rethink Risk, Unlock the Power of Courage, Achieve Outstanding Success, Margie Warrell says that, In today’s competitive and fast changing workplace, we can never hope to achieve success unless we're willing to embrace change and risk the discomfort of failure.”

In truth, failure can be one of your greatest assets, if you allow it to be. Success is merely an experiment that manifests itself through a process of trial and error.

I can’t promise you that everything is always going to work out. Life doesn’t play out that way. It is designed to challenge you so that you can grow into the person you desire to be.

You always have a choice. You can either fall apart and become a victim, or you can rise above and become a victor. You cannot control your external world, but you can control how you choose to respond to it.

The most successful people in the world see mistakes as valuable learning experiences that allow them to become stronger and more successful. They pride themselves on their failures. Take it from Jeff Bezos, the Founder of Amazon – “I've made billions of dollars of failures at Amazon.com. Literally billions of dollars of failures.”

Just because something doesn’t work out like you planned, doesn’t mean that you are a failure. It simply means that you tried something and it didn’t work, and that is OK. If you’re afraid of making mistakes, you won’t grow.

Stay committed and learn from your mistakes. See every setback in life as an opportunity to learn, to grow, and become a better version of yourself.

Thomas Watson Sr., the original Chairman and CEO of IBM, once said, “The fastest way to succeed is to double your failure rate.” Are you making enough mistakes? Experiment more, fail more, and I promise that you will succeed faster.

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Motivational Speech for Success: Step out of Your Comfort Zone https://projectlifemastery.com/powerful-motivational-speech/ https://projectlifemastery.com/powerful-motivational-speech/#respond Tue, 18 Jul 2017 01:09:11 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6513 A comfort zone is safe, but predictable. Do you want to learn why it's important to wake up and go beyond your comfort zone? Click here to learn more!

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Today, I have a powerful motivational speech for you. If you want to achieve your goals and dreams in life, you need to wake up and go beyond your comfort zone.

We all have a zone of comfort, which is comprised of a consistent set of beliefs and behaviours that we’ve grown accustomed to. According to Alan Henry, the editor in chief of Lifehacker“Your comfort zone is neither a good or bad thing. It's a natural state that most people trend towards.”

When we live in a comfort zone, we feel safe, but the problem with this place is that nothing ever grows here. Life becomes predictable. If you don’t go beyond your comfort zone, you will never be able to become the person that you aspire to be. Growth and comfort do not co-exist.

It’s time to wake up and go beyond your comfort zone. In the words of Eleanor Roosevelt, “Do one thing every day that scares you.” What would you do if you weren’t afraid?

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At one point in my life, I was stuck in my comfort zone. I always knew that the life that I desired was possible, but I didn’t take action. I was distracted, I was a dabbler, and I was fearful.

In order to find some clarity, I decided to write a letter to my future self about my goals, dreams, and aspirations. In that letter, I asked myself:

“Stefan, what are you afraid of? I’m your hopes and goals. I wanted you as much as you wanted me, but you left me with no choice. I simply must move on. Please do not attempt to talk your way out of this. The years of indecision and lack of discipline tells me everything that I need to know. If you really wanted me, you would have found a way for us to be together. I’m so tired of seeing my hopes soar so high, just to see them dashed. I simply must move on.”

This was a letter that changed my life. It really opened me up to doing what was necessary in order to change my life. Sometimes you need to look in the mirror and have an honest conversation with yourself.

Unfortunately, a lot of people tell themselves stories about why they can’t do something, and these negative beliefs keep them stuck in a cycle of despair.

Someone once said that, “The naked truth is always better than the best-dressed lie.” If you want to change your life, you need to get real with yourself. The truth will set you free.

If you want to have more, you need to become more, which is why you need to put yourself in challenging circumstances and get out of your comfort zone. There is no better way to conquer your fears. To this day, I am constantly pushing my limits and engaging in actions that allow me to grow.

In the words of Eddie Harris Jr., “The sooner that you step away from your comfort zone, the sooner you will realize that it really wasn’t all that comfortable.” Everything that you want in life is on the other side of fear. It's time to wake up and go beyond your comfort zone. Are you ready?

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If You’re Not Outside Your Comfort Zone, You Won’t Learn Anything https://projectlifemastery.com/avoid-your-comfort-zone/ https://projectlifemastery.com/avoid-your-comfort-zone/#respond Sat, 08 Jul 2017 07:54:11 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6483 I’m here to tell you if you’re not outside your comfort zone, you won’t learn anything. By nature, human beings crave security and comfort. Although a comfort zone feels safe, this isn’t where the magic happens. A study conducted back in 1908 showed that remaining in a state of comfort ensured steady performance, however, in order […]

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I’m here to tell you if you’re not outside your comfort zone, you won’t learn anything. By nature, human beings crave security and comfort. Although a comfort zone feels safe, this isn’t where the magic happens.

A study conducted back in 1908 showed that remaining in a state of comfort ensured steady performance, however, in order to increase or maximize performance levels, we need to be in a space of “optimal anxiety”. Another words, a little bit of fear is a good thing.

Brene Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston, explains that, “One of the worst things we can do is pretend that fear and uncertainty don’t exist.” Anything of value in life requires that you push your boundaries. When you get out of your comfort zone, you challenge yourself to do things that you wouldn’t normally do.

Everything that you desire in life is outside of your comfort zone and inside your learning zone. What would you do if you weren’t afraid?

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I’m not suggesting that you jump head first outside of your comfort zone. Rather, take baby steps towards the fear that you are trying to overcome.

When you break through your fear, day-by-day, you become more confident, and you develop the momentum that you need in order to grow and evolve into the person that you are meant to be. I believe it’s not what you get in life that makes you happy, but rather it’s who you become.

If you are constantly afraid to take risks in life and do things that scare you, you will never truly understand who you are. As they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained.

To this day, I am constantly pushing myself and doing things that allow me to grow. The reality is that if you aren’t growing, you’re dying. If you want to master your life, you need to learn how to be comfortable being uncomfortable.

Yes, the feeling of being uncomfortable can be painful at first. Personal growth and transformation is never easy, or else everyone would do it. When we start to push our boundaries, there will always be a little bit of resistance. However, the reality is that comfort is the enemy.

To clarify this point, I am reminded of a quote from Arnold Schwarzenegger who said that, “The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow. This area of pain divides the champion from someone who is not a champion. That’s what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they’ll go through the pain no matter what happens.”

Any time you feel uncomfortable or nervous, celebrate those emotions. This is allowing is allowing you to grow. For example, next month I’m giving a speech in front of one thousand people.

I have to admit that the idea of it makes me uncomfortable. But that doesn’t hold me back from doing it because I have conditioned my mind to view it as an exciting opportunity, rather than a fearful one.

I don’t have to give the speech. I want to do it, because I know that discomfort is what will allow me to grow and fully embody the person that I desire to be. Become who you want to be now!

My challenge to you is to do something that you wouldn’t normally do, because if you’re not outside your comfort zone, you won’t learn anything. Brian Tracy said it best – “Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.”

Face your fears and know that you are supposed to feel a bit scared in the process. That is how you know you are making progress! Reframe fear in a positive way. When you do so, it will change how you feel.

The unknown is a magical place. This is where your dreams manifest themselves. Are you going to play it safe and keep dreaming of a better life, or are you going step outside of your comfort zone and design the life that you desire?

The choice is yours. I challenge you to take the leap!

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Want to be happier and live an extraordinary life? https://projectlifemastery.com/extraordinary-life/ https://projectlifemastery.com/extraordinary-life/#respond Mon, 05 Jun 2017 13:46:48 +0000 http://projectlifemastery.com/?p=6294 Happiness is a universal need, but only you have the power to create it. Do you want to be happier and live an extraordinary life? Click here to learn how!

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Do you want to be happier and live an extraordinary life? The recipe is quite simple. Life-altering, take-your-breath-away moments are great, but those aren’t the experiences that will bring you the most joy in life.

Happiness is a universal emotion. Unfortunately, a lot of people think that living an extraordinary life is a lofty, unachievable goal, but this is far from true. Financial wealth and materialistic possessions will not bring you happiness.

If you want to be happier and live an extraordinary life, you need to be grateful for the extraordinary things that already exist in your life. Sometimes it’s the small things that mean the most. The reason that something is extraordinary in your life is because of how you feel about it. What you feel, you attract.

In the words of Mandy Hale, “Happiness is letting go of what you think your life is supposed to look like, and celebrating it for everything it is.” What does happiness mean to you?

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In Bonnie Ware’s book, The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing, she found that one of the top regrets that people talked about before they died was that they didn’t allow themselves to experience more happiness. 

New research suggests that capturing the mundane experiences is actually what may bring us unexpected happiness in the future (Zhang, Kim, & Brooks, 2014). Savour the small moments in life, because in the end they may be the experiences that you remember the most. Every day I focus on rituals that inspire me to live in a constant state of happiness.

Happiness is a daily practice. Once I made the decision to enjoy each day of my life to the fullest and conditioned my mind to experience extraordinary pleasure from the simple things, every area of my life transformed, and so can yours.

True happiness comes from within; it’s an inside job. I believe that we all have a higher self, otherwise known as the person that we aspire to be. Who do you aspire to be? Step into that role with confidence and determination. When you face obstacles or challenges in life, step back and ask yourself, “What would my highest self do?” When you do so, it allows you to be more self-aware and make more conscious decisions.

If you want to be happier and live an extraordinary life, you need to make it a priority to master every area of your life. That is the recipe for true happiness and fulfillment. I’m not perfect, but I do the work by way of making the commitment to continuously grow and evolve in all areas of my life.

In the words of T. Harv Eker, “How you do anything is how you do everything in life.” Do you want to be happier and live an extraordinary life? The truth is, that all you have to do is to act “as if” happiness is already your reality. Only YOU have the power to create it. It's time to take action!

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